Anytime you leave something you've done and where you've been for nearly a decade, it's going to be different.
My infrastructure must run brilliantly. My whole system must be different from what you can get anywhere else in Asia.
I think I've always wanted to be different from everybody else. I get really annoyed when I do something and everybody else does it too, or if I'm doing something that everybody else is doing.
Any society where it's a crime or a hassle to be different is a society based on psychological fascism.
Some may want to be a homemaker and some want to follow other careers and they should be allowed. If we want to be different we should be different and we should be allowed to be different.